Top dating tips for nice men

Flowers, chocolate, holding doors open – these are all very nice gestures for any man to do on a first date but there's no denying, it's a bit wet isn't it? It's no secret that women don't always find nice men attractive so how can an average Joe get his foot in the door?

We women can be a confusing species sometimes; one minute we want a nice guy to settle down with and the next we're dumping them for some ruffian who looks like they belong on a most wanted poster at the local police station.

You're really nice but…
So what are the nice guys doing wrong? Nothing in particular really. In the long run they'll be the most stable partners but in the meantime women want somebody who will rock their boat and this isn't going to be with a man who sits quietly in a chair listening intently to us babbling on or even a man who tells us about the names he's already chosen for his future children.

Nope, none of these nice things will do because we want a man who looks like he could win in a fight. Although, while we like the fact that the bad-boys are independent and won't hound our mobiles every five minutes, we secretly hope that they'll fall deeply in love with us and become the perfect man we've always been looking for.

Treat them mean, keep them keen
So how does a nice guy win the girl? For the easy option you can always watch Will Smith's antics in Hitch, otherwise take a look at the following advice.

Confidence
This is a must. If you want a girl to be eager to answer your phone call instead of ignore it, act confident. Not only will she like the fact that you're a man in control but she'll feel completely at as ease in your company. The worst thing you can do is either freeze like a lemon or start chatting nervously like Woody Allen. If you need to brush up on your confidence skills visit www.self-confidence.co.uk.

Be a man
Girls want a confident man who will be able to protect her if a sticky situation were to arise, so yes, women really do want a man that looks like he could win a fight. If you want to brush up on your manly skills, visit www.sportfocus.com for a huge list of boxing clubs in the UK.

Manners
Forget all the lovely and romantic gestures you've seen in the movies and cut your manners down by 80%. It's very nice that some men want to open car doors, send little gifts in the post and book holidays away, but when you've only known the person for two weeks, it's a little excessive.

Texting/phoning
Every girl likes to get a text from her date saying they had a good time and when she gets another in the morning saying "Have a nice day" it can often be quite sweet. However, when she gets a further text at lunchtime asking "How's your day going?" then he's definitely starting to look desperate. This is a complete turn off and screams clingy and desperate.

Summing up, girls don't usually like nice men. They creep them out and scare them away. If you want to make sure that your female date can't wait to see you again then play it cool and confident. For the ultimate dating tips, take a look at www.topdatingtips.com.

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